Rule# 1: Never go to bed angry.  If you go to bed angry, you will end up waking up angry and spoiling the next day.  Try and resolve the disagreement that night or day and then “connect” with your spouse, gf or bf to seal the deal.

Rule#2:  Spend the weekends together and make clothing optional. Assuming that you are living together and have no kids, make weekends clothing optional days.   This is super erotic and will make for very interesting interactions throughout the day.   Of course if you plan to go out or have company, clothing is a must.

Rule#3:  If you cant resolve minor differences, “connect”, and agree to disagree. In relationships and marriages, there will always be minor differences of opinions of ways to approach an issue.   By “connecting” you will restablish your love and lust for each other and simply agree to disagree.

Rule#4: Always try to be respectful of each others opinions and actions. While this might seem obvious, it is amazing how many couples fail simply due to not being able to truly value each others opinions or approaches to problems.   Be respectful of each others opinions and actions even though they may contradict your own.

Rule#5: Don’t let drunk logic rule or affect your relationship. When we drink or get drunk, we sometimes say things that make no sense or are unnecessarily hurtful.  This is normally caused by drunk logic (or lack of logic at all).  If both of you find yourselves a victim of drunk logic, flag it, address it, discuss it, resolve it, and of course “connect” afterward.

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